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Attitude is fundamental !
At the moment in which we approach NLP 3 we need to be pushed by a strong
desire to participate in life and a curiosity towards exploring what is new,
to have the wish to challenge ourselves in something unexplored to achieve
and live our dreams.
How many of you have projects that are blocked by a fear of failure,
thinking of all the difficulties you might meet?
This behaviour risks to be counterproductive.......We are the first
difficulty that we need to overcome.
You need to focus yourself on the results that you want to achieve and
dedicate all the energy you can give to your projects. Many people think
that NLP 3 is simply a group of techniques, instead it is the study and
modelling of success strategies, animated by the winning positive thought of
those that have achieved great goals in all aspects of their life.
"We are greater than what we think we are!"
(Milton Erickson)
An example of this greatness was the American psychiatrist Milton Erickson
who, notwithstanding his handicap, managed to develop the small amount of
sensibility he had to be able to have better contact with others, becoming
the best communicator of his time, even though he had difficulty in
speaking. He believed in life and in love, seen by him as a great value,
which united with passion and positiveness, are the best conditions to learn
NPL, in the best way possible. Minds that work well are those that produce
satisfactory results, also visible to others!!!!
Milton Erickson was a hymn to life! To be able to overcome his difficulties
he found himself faced with a challenge, and the result of his challenge was
Neuro-linguistic programming.
In fact the first NLP originated above all from the comprehension, carried
out by a study group at the Santa Cruz University (California), of the
strategies used by many successful communicators and the modelling of M.
Erickson had a fundamental role in this development.
It is us that, being born and raised in a culture which considers life a
"valley of tears", think that in the moment in which something good happens,
it is down to good luck. A dull life, without emotions or memorable events
is considered normal and with this widespread conviction, it becomes logical
that existence continues in this "dullness", because the brain is a learning
machine and energy follows thought. Or alternatively, we allow ourselves to
be driven between euphoria and sadness when in reality we are the owners of
the way we think.
Think positive and exciting thoughts if you want to have a happy and
stimulating life!
Think negative thoughts and you will have a life full of troubles and
regrets.
NLP is also an attitude: a means to positive living, optimistic and winning.
It teaches us how to change that which prevents us advancing, transforming
difficulties into opportunities of progression. It helps us to concentrate
on objectives and to find the right way to achieve them. It increases
self-confidence, turning internal images and sensations into something
positive. It unfurls with all its strength the potential that is in all of
us but which we often ignore. It helps improve our relationships with
others because it puts us in a condition to better observe and fully
understand the person with which we are speaking.
Originated in America (in the 70's) it provides us with a series of
successful methods enabling us to achieve our objectives in all those areas
in which communication is fundamental: sentimental; professional; sales;
family harmony etc. etc. In the following years other models were created
that leaned towards the new direction of NLP 3.
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